Monday, August 8, 2011
Please help me out, what should I do about this guy?
The first thing you must remember, its YOU who are important..NOT the former guy, not the present guy, but the YOU person ! Also, the only one who can hurt you, is the one YOU allow to hurt you ! Its everyone's goal in life to have a mate who loves them and wants to share their love and life with ! NO relationship will last or even be successful if either partner isn't really commited to it and the other person. Therefore, YOU must like the person first. If you don't, 1) your wasting your time, 2)its not fair to the other person, and 3) the relationship is doomed from day one ! Should you date this new person ? Absolutely! As long as YOU are attracted to them. You have esteem issues. Meaning, you Want to be loved and Want to be engaged in a relationship, but you think the OTHER party must like you before you will even consider a relationship. Wrong and bad thinking! You deserve love and life. You are MORE than worthy to be loved and appreciated! Everyone is ! You've had this inadaquate feeling about yourself all your life. Its time to love YOU and appreciate the fact that there IS someone out there who will return your feelings and will WANT to be with you and grow together the rest of your lives. BUT, love at first sight is a shallow mistaken belief which RARELY bares fruit. So do date, and keep things light and loose. Date several people and allow yourself to be particular. AND not exclusive !! You will find the right person when you put more confidence and urance in YOU !! He's out there just waiting for you !! Check them all out, and enjoy your journey !! I do wish you well !! SOLOMON
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