Mother Daughter Problems?

Ever since spring break my mother and i haven't been getting along. She calls me ungrateful and selfish and inconsiderate. I don't think i'm that bad. I understand she is a single mother with a hard job but does she have to take it out on me? and she is gaining weight and she has less self esteem than me. Everyday i get yelled at, she deleted my myspace, facebook and took my phone away. She is VERY hygienic, everything has to be SO clean and SO precise. I never do anything right. yadda yadda yadda. i don't even care anymore. I make her feel like ****? she makes ME feel like ****.. what should we do? I think im trying. but i've given up trying to please her. She gives up on me all the time too, if i mess up once, she'll say she is tired and she'll send me to my dads. She tells me she loves me, but sometimes i wonder..